Wife Board - balancing 3 relationships
Wife Board – balancing 3 relationships · You can't control people, but you can run things fairly and honestly · 1. Honesty first All three know about each other and agree. Hiding it is cheating, and…
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- Wife Board – balancing 3 relationships
- You can't control people, but you can run things fairly and honestly
- 1. Honesty first All three know about each other and agree. Hiding it is cheating, and it always falls apart.
- 2. Ask each one what they need Time, attention, how much they want to know, how much contact they want with the others.
- 3. Shared calendar Plan dates, nights and holidays openly so nobody feels forgotten or ranked.
- 4. Agree on rules together Boundaries, new partners, money, living arrangements. Write them down and review them.
- 5. Regular check-ins One-on-one talks with each partner. Deal with jealousy early and calmly, without blame.
- 6. Health and safety Regular STI testing, protection agreements, and honesty about any changes.
- 7. Legal reality In most countries you can only legally marry one person. Look into wills, contracts and children's rights.
- 8. Don't burn out Three relationships take a lot of time and energy. Keep time for yourself, and be fair about what you can really give.